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Affection and intimacy0/26 Sex0/17 Flirting and teasing0/7 Bodies0/19 Clothing0/17 Toys0/18 Locations0/21 Roleplay0/15 Sensation0/14 Bondage0/19 Pain and impact0/21 Power and control0/14 Watching and being watched0/8 Taboo and edge play0/6

Affection and intimacy

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Closeness, care, and sensual connection.

Kissing

Mouth-to-mouth and mouth-to-body kissing.

0/4

Soft
Deep
Neck
Body

Cuddling

Holding each other close.

0/3

Roles

Big spoon
Little spoon

Variations

Face to face

Massage

Rubbing and kneading the body to relax or arouse.

0/4

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Full body
Erotic

Bathing together

Washing and relaxing in water together.

0/3

Roles

Washing
Being washed

Variations

Bubble bath

Romantic dinner

A slow, flirty meal that builds anticipation.

0/4

Roles

Cooking
Being cooked for

Variations

Feeding each other
Aphrodisiacs

Sensual dancing

Moving together to music.

0/4

Roles

Leading
Following

Variations

Slow dance
Grinding

Aftercare

Looking after each other once play is over.

0/4

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Cuddling
Talking it through

Sex

0/17

The core acts most people have an opinion on.

Oral sex

Using the mouth on a partner's genitals.

0/3

Giving
Receiving
Mutual (69)

Fingering

Using fingers to stimulate a partner.

0/2

Giving
Receiving

Anal play

Stimulation of the anus, from fingers and toys to penetration.

0/5

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Fingers
Toys
Penetration

Masturbation

Pleasuring yourself, alone or with someone involved.

0/3

Doing it
Watching a partner
Being watched

Group sex

Sex with more than two people.

0/4

Threesome
Foursome
Orgy
Swinging

Flirting and teasing

0/7

Words, messages, and building anticipation.

Dirty talk

Saying explicit things out loud to turn each other on.

0/2

Talking
Listening

Teasing

Building anticipation and holding back satisfaction.

0/5

Roles

Teasing
Being teased

Variations

Verbal
Physical
Slow build

Bodies

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What you find attractive in a partner's body.

Body type

Overall build.

0/4

Slim
Average
Curvy or chubby
Muscular

Chest size

Size of a partner's chest or breasts.

0/4

Flat
Small
Medium
Large

Butt size

Size of a partner's butt.

0/3

Small
Medium
Large

Penis size

Only relevant if your partner has a penis.

0/3

Small
Average
Large

Body hair

Hair on the body and around the genitals.

0/3

Shaved
Trimmed
Natural

Piercings

Piercings on a partner's body.

Tattoos

Tattoos on a partner's body.

Clothing

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Outfits, materials, and what is (or isn't) worn.

Lingerie

Sexy underwear and intimate outfits.

0/3

Wearing
Partner wearing
Shopping together

Leather

Clothing and gear made of leather.

0/3

Roles

Wearing
Partner wearing

Variations

The smell

Latex and rubber

Tight, shiny synthetic outfits.

0/3

Roles

Wearing
Partner wearing

Variations

Full body

Stockings and tights

Leg wear that changes the look and feel of legs.

0/3

Roles

Wearing
Partner wearing

Variations

Tearing them

High heels

Heels as part of the look, the posture, or the play.

0/3

Roles

Wearing
Partner wearing

Variations

Worship

Uniforms

Outfits tied to a job or role.

0/2

Wearing
Partner wearing

Toys

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Devices and tools made for pleasure.

Vibrators

Toys that vibrate for external or internal stimulation.

0/3

Using on myself
Using on a partner
Partner using on me

Dildos

Non-vibrating toys for penetration.

0/4

Roles

Using on myself
Using on a partner
Partner using on me

Variations

Double-ended

Butt plugs

Anal toys shaped to stay in place.

0/6

Roles

Wearing
Partner wearing

Variations

Small
Medium
Large
Worn for hours

Cock rings

Rings worn at the base of the penis for firmness and sensation.

0/3

Roles

Wearing
Partner wearing

Variations

Vibrating

Strap-ons

A harness that holds a dildo for penetration.

0/2

Wearing
Receiving

Locations

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Where it happens.

Bedroom

The classic, private setting.

0/3

Your place
Partner's place
Hotel

Shower and bath

Anywhere with water.

0/4

Shower
Bath
Hot tub
Pool

Outdoors

Out in nature.

0/4

Forest
Beach
Garden
Balcony

Car

In or on a vehicle.

0/3

Back seat
Front seat
Parked somewhere quiet

Public places

Places where you could get caught.

0/4

Bathroom
Changing room
Office
Elevator

Kitchen

Counters, tables, and whatever is in the fridge.

0/3

Counter
Table
With food

Roleplay

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Acting out characters and scenarios.

Teacher and student

An authority and learning scenario between adults.

0/3

Roles

Teacher
Student

Variations

Detention

Doctor and patient

A medical exam scenario.

0/2

Doctor or nurse
Patient

Boss and employee

A workplace power scenario.

0/3

Roles

Boss
Employee

Variations

Job interview

Maid or butler

A service scenario with orders and chores.

0/3

Roles

Giving orders
Serving

Variations

French maid outfit

Police and suspect

An arrest and interrogation scenario.

0/2

Officer
Suspect

Strangers

Acting like you just met.

0/2

Bar pickup
Online date

Sensation

0/14

Playing with touch, temperature, and texture.

Sensory play

Playing with touch, sound, taste, and smell.

0/4

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Feathers
Textures

Hot wax

Dripping warm candle wax on skin.

0/2

Giving
Receiving

Ice play

Using cold to contrast with warm skin.

0/2

Giving
Receiving

Tickling

Tickling as play, tease, or torment.

0/6

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Light
Intense
Feathers
While restrained

Bondage

0/19

Restraint and restriction using rope, cuffs, and other gear.

Rope bondage

Tying someone up for restraint or for the look of it.

0/4

Roles

Tying
Being tied

Variations

Shibari
Suspension

Cuffs

Cuffs for wrists or ankles.

0/4

Roles

Cuffing
Being cuffed

Variations

Metal
Fuzzy

Blindfolds

Taking away sight to sharpen everything else.

0/2

Blindfolding
Being blindfolded

Gags

Something in or over the mouth to muffle speech.

0/4

Roles

Gagging
Being gagged

Variations

Ball gag
Tape

Spreader bars

A bar that keeps legs or arms apart.

0/2

Using
Being restrained

Restraint furniture

Furniture built for tying someone in place.

0/3

Roles

Using
Being restrained

Variations

St. Andrew's cross

Pain and impact

0/21

Striking, pinching, and biting, from playful to intense.

Spanking

Striking the butt or thighs with a hand or paddle.

0/6

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Hand
Paddle
Over clothes
Bare

Flogging

A multi-tailed flogger across the back, butt, or thighs.

0/2

Giving
Receiving

Caning

A thin, flexible cane that gives sharp, precise strokes.

0/4

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Light
Heavy

Nipple play

Pinching, clamping, or pulling the nipples.

0/5

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Pinching
Clamps
Weights

Hair pulling

Holding or tugging hair during sex or kissing.

0/4

Roles

Doing
Receiving

Variations

Gentle
Firm

Power and control

0/14

Dominance, submission, and who gets to decide.

Power exchange

One person takes control and the other gives it up, by agreement.

0/3

Dominant
Submissive
Switch

Orgasm control

Deciding when, how, or if someone gets to come.

0/5

Roles

In control
Being controlled

Variations

Edging
Denial
Needing permission

Chastity

A device that blocks touching or getting off.

0/2

Wearing
Keyholder

Pet play

Taking on an animal persona and being treated like one.

0/4

Roles

Pet
Owner

Variations

Puppy
Kitten

Watching and being watched

0/8

Audiences, cameras, and screens.

Exhibitionism and voyeurism

Watching others, or being watched, during sex or undressing.

0/4

Roles

Being watched
Watching

Variations

Public
Semi-public

Photos and video

Recording intimate moments.

0/4

Roles

Filming or photographing
Being filmed or photographed

Variations

Photos
Video

Taboo and edge play

0/6

Widely off-limits or higher-risk play. Always between consenting adults, with research and care.

Age play

Roleplay where consenting adults act older or younger.

0/2

Caregiver
Little

Watersports

Play involving urine.

0/4

Roles

Giving
Receiving

Variations

Golden shower
Marking

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