Kissing
Mouth-to-mouth and mouth-to-body kissing.
- Soft
- Deep
- Neck
- Body
- Biting lips
- Nose kiss
- Forehead
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Closeness, care, and sensual connection.
Mouth-to-mouth and mouth-to-body kissing.
Holding each other close.
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Rubbing and kneading the body to relax or arouse.
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Washing and relaxing in water together.
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A slow, flirty meal that builds anticipation.
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Moving together to music.
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Writing out desire and affection, on paper or in long messages.
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Presents with a romantic or sexual meaning.
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Looking after each other once play is over.
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The core acts most people have an opinion on.
Using the mouth on a partner's genitals.
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Using hands and fingers on a partner's genitals.
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Stimulation of the anus, from light touch to full penetration.
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Pleasuring yourself, alone or with someone involved.
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Rubbing bodies together for friction and arousal.
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Sex with more than two people.
Words, messages, and building anticipation, in person or online.
Saying explicit things out loud to turn each other on.
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Building anticipation and holding back satisfaction.
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Compliments and encouragement during sex.
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Pleading for something before it's allowed.
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Sending explicit messages, pictures, or videos.
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Turning each other on over a call.
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Meeting people through apps and sites.
What you find attractive in a partner's body.
Overall build.
Size of a partner's chest or breasts.
Size of a partner's butt.
Only relevant if your partner has a penis.
Hair on the body and around the genitals.
Piercings on a partner's body.
Tattoos on a partner's body.
Outfits, materials, and what is (or isn't) worn.
Sexy underwear and intimate outfits.
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Clothing and gear made of leather.
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Tight, shiny synthetic outfits.
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Leg wear that changes the look and feel of legs.
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Heels as part of the look, the posture, or the play.
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Outfits tied to a job or role.
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Wearing clothes usually associated with another gender.
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Being naked outside of sex itself.
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Devices and tools made for pleasure.
Toys that vibrate for external or internal stimulation.
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Non-vibrating toys for penetration.
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Anal toys shaped to stay in place.
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A string of beads inserted and pulled out one by one.
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A harness that holds a dildo for penetration.
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Rings worn at the base of the penis for firmness and sensation.
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Toys a partner controls from somewhere else.
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Motorized machines built for stimulation.
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Where it happens.
The classic, private setting.
Anywhere with water.
Out in nature.
In or on a vehicle.
Places where you could get caught.
Counters, tables, and whatever is in the fridge.
An office or workplace, usually after hours.
Somewhere away from home.
Acting out characters and scenarios.
An authority and learning scenario between adults.
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A medical exam scenario.
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A workplace power scenario.
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A service scenario with orders and chores.
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An arrest and interrogation scenario.
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Acting like you just met.
Playing mythical or fictional beings.
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Scenes set in another era, with costumes to match.
Playing with touch, temperature, and texture.
Playing with touch, sound, taste, and smell.
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Dripping warm candle wax on skin.
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Using cold to contrast with warm skin.
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Tickling as play, tease, or torment.
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Restraint and restriction using rope, cuffs, and other gear.
Tying someone up for restraint or for the look of it.
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Cuffs for wrists or ankles.
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Taking away sight to sharpen everything else.
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Something in or over the mouth to muffle speech.
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A bar that keeps legs or arms apart.
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Furniture built for tying someone in place.
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Striking, pinching, and biting, from playful to intense.
Striking the butt or thighs with a hand or paddle.
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A multi-tailed flogger across the back, butt, or thighs.
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A thin, flexible cane that gives sharp, precise strokes.
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Single-tail whips. Needs real skill to do safely.
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Pinching, clamping, or pulling the nipples.
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Holding or tugging hair during sex or kissing.
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Nails and teeth, from light traces to marks.
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Dominance, submission, and who gets to decide.
One person takes control and the other gives it up, by agreement.
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Deciding when, how, or if someone gets to come.
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Embarrassment or degradation that turns someone on.
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A device that blocks touching or getting off.
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A collar as a sign of ownership or submission.
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Being kept in an enclosure.
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Taking on an animal persona and being treated like one.
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Audiences, cameras, and screens.
Watching others, or being watched, during sex or undressing.
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Recording intimate moments.
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Live video performances.
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Watching adult content.
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Immersive VR experiences.
Specific objects, body parts, or scenarios with an erotic focus.
Attraction to feet and everything around them.
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Using food on bodies for taste, texture, and mess.
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Finding smoking attractive in a sexual context.
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Sexual play with balloons.
Fantasies about changing form, body, or species.
Widely off-limits or higher-risk play. Always between consenting adults, with research and care.
Roleplay where consenting adults act older or younger.
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Fantasy scenarios about family roles, between unrelated consenting adults.
Play involving urine.
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Play involving feces. Carries serious health risks.
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Restricting breathing for intensity. One of the most dangerous practices; never do it alone.
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Using medical tools and procedures in a scene.
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